EVERYDAY IS AN OPPORTUNITY FOR REBIRTH , TO REMOVE THE LIMITATIONS  OF WHO WE THINK WE ARE AND RELEASE THE EXPRESSION OF WHO WE CHOOSE TO NOW BE Each year we have our birthday where we celebrate ourselves , we invite family  and friends to witness how we have grown through the year. It is also a time to practice self reflection to look at what journeys we have taken and how there have helped our evolution. Yet everyday is actually an opportunity for rebirth. To see what aspec

It's not about what you get but how you feel . When we allow our spirit to guide out decisions instead of what we can get from them , we are drawn to how we will feel and make decisions from a place of joy. If this resonates Please like , share and comment below and join my mailing list at my website for more on the new Human operating system for life HOS3 WWW.PAULGOTEL.COM IF YOU ARE READY FOR YOUR OWN SELF REVOLUTION , then For Self Revolution Coaching Sessions email paulgo

Be kind to yourself first for self kindness brings a harvest of love to share So often we are focused on pleasing others that we forget that the ground of all true generosity is from our own fields . We have been programmed that selflessness is the highest aspiration and from a a perspective of divine abundance this is so , yet so many of us don't realize that if we neglect to nurture ourselves we have a limited amount to share . From this unconscious dynamic we fall in the p

WHEN PLANS CHANGE THEY ARE REARRANGING TO MAKE SPACE FOR THE UNEXPECTEDLY WONDERFUL TO HAPPEN We all make plans that we look forward too  and sometimes through no choice of your own they seem to rearrange. If we are attached to specific result we can become insistent and often annoyed , blaming others for our seeming misfortune yet what if these new adjustments were perfectly aligned . Instead of creating resistance this is an opportunity to surrender the previous ideas and o

WHEN YOU'RE INSPIRATION GRABS YOU DON'T STAND IN YOUR WAY We are all gifted with inspiration many times a day , often communicated by signs that come as coincidences . Things that spark our interest and ignite a desire within us to move towards this inspiring idea . However almost as soon as we have this thought, we can set up a bunch hurdles to block our trajectory. We list limitations of money , skill , opportunity, race , gender , age and many more , that we use to stand

Now is always enough anything else is an illusion of lack Whenever are awareness is away from the present moment we believe that there is something missing that we need to focus our attention on so that we can achieve it and bring ourselves fulfillment. The trouble with this way of thinking is it is based in lack mentality. We believe that we are not fulfilled here and now and in order to gain completion we must take our attention away from here and place it there  and in doi

BE COURAGEOUS ENOUGH TO RISK YOUR PAST ATTACHMENTS FOR YOUR FUTURE CREATIONS When we are thinking about our future and what we wish to manifest in our lives we can feel inspired and positive yet when we come to making the changes necessary  we can find ourselves stuck because subconsciously we are holding onto past attachments that we feel are at risk if we make these new choices. In most cases , we have invested time and energy into the people places and things of our lives

COMMUNITY HOLDS THE OPPORTUNITY OF COMPASSIONATE UNITY We are all living in community on some level wether it be in a specific home with our family , with a chosen  group of people with harmonious beliefs or the wider community of the town we live in , yet so often in today's world we are struggling for our independence that we fail to see the opportunity that is present in the collective of humans that we connect with everyday. Humans by nature are social  beings , although

OUR VISIONS ARE A GLIMPSE OF A FUTURE THAT HAS ALREADY OCCURRED All of us have at some time have had a spontaneous vision, where we are surprised as we envision a future experience arising almost unexpectedly in our minds eye . For some of us its a glance, for others almost a waking dream, often of an unspoken desire that has been percolating in our subconscious waiting to be ignited by a situation that has unfolded before us . These visions can pass through or be all consumi

BEAUTY IS OUR RECOGNITION OF DIVINE EXISTENCE Each of us has a different perception of what beauty is and yet what is actually happening when we perceive something as beautiful ? That quintessential observation of the artistry of life ; the combination of color , form , sound , Scent or touch that ignites in us wonder and awe . This recognition of the existence of the divine in all draws us away from the past and future, pulling us into this very moment , as we witness our tr

WHAT WE FIND ATTRACTIVE IN ANOTHER WE HIDE WITHIN OURSELVES We are all influenced by attraction the magnetic force that pulls two seemingly separate but alike energies together. We can be attracted to many people places and things , and mostly we believe its something we want . In its negative sense we see it as something to possess and control and this has given those of us with good natured heart to see attractiveness as something shallow. Yet what is often triggered by sig

If we walk in fear we see danger all around us, so we develop a method of protecting ourselves against these perceived threats . We create a persona of protection, our Ego ,  to armor ourselves so that the impact of possible attacks are not felt. However this armor that is supposed to serve us ends up hindering us . Over time it becomes a castle of imprisonment where our inner child is  safely locked away from harms way . Yet this restriction that stops people getting to us a

WHEN RADICAL SHIFT HAPPENS DON'T WORRY ABOUT THE EXTERIOR REASONS, CELEBRATE FOR CHANGE IS ALWAYS HAPPENING TO SERVE THE HIGHEST GOOD. When swift and radical shift happens it is always in response to an internal request , sometimes subconscious sometimes conscious. We have envisioned a different life for us , wether it has specific details or more often a wide ranging feeling of well being or peace , we have created a new energetic direction and the universe has responded. If

WHEN WE REMOVE THE FALSE LAYER OF JUDGEMENT ABOUT OUR PAST WE CAN SEE IT WAS ALWAYS SERVING OUR HIGHEST EVOLUTION We all have a mind full of memories which without self inquiry we can believe are constant , yet actually whenever we revisit them our perspective has changed due to the experiences of our life and thus our relationship to our memories change over time . This process although subconscious actually changes how we remember things and how we relate to them . If we so

TO RELEASE OURSELVES FROM OUR PAST IDENTITY WE ALSO HAVE TO BE WILLING TO RELEASE ALL THAT CAME WITH IT When we have gone through a transformational experience we can feel as if our body is now too small for our new energetic self . Like a snake shedding its skin we have to remove the restrictive patterns of our past so that we may expand beyond our old identity. Although this in itself can be challenging, as most of what we have acquired is very valued by us, one of the unfo

When we have undertaken concentrated periods of education , we become flooded with new ideas and feel so energized that we wish to hit the ground running . Full of enthusiasm we move ahead without a clear plan or direction and can quickly become overwhelmed. When ever we have gone through a process of evolution it is important to give ourselves the timeout to reflect and let things settle . For these shifts will need to be integrated into our navigation system , removing what

When we unattach from outcomes we allow upgrades So often we enter into an situation we have an idea of how we wish it to play out and by bringing in this expectation we  create a restriction that can actually limit the possibilities. If we are willing to simple be with each moment in courageous authenticity we free ourselves from the awkwardness of trying to figure out what is the best way to attain and outcome and simply be ourselves, dropping all insistence and resistance,

Be Courageous  enough To Be Authentic . For confidence is born from trust ourselves. Asking for what you want requires courage . When we are willing to trust our internal guidance and release our fears we can communicate from a place of authenticity. How to do this is developing self awareness so that In each moment we can notice if we are resistant, in which case we move towards this situation or Insistent in which case we step back from it . Never forcing or avoiding but tu

When we drop our fear of embarrassment our capacity for fun becomes unlimited If we have invested in our ego we have sacrificed our authenticity for a construct , a mask , that we identify as ourselves and then we wish to protect its  standing with other people . We become proud of our achievements and become impressed by what we have built and slowly this investment lessens our willingness to be authentic with each passing moment. We wish for others to recognize and acknowle

When we listen to others we also train ourselves to hear our own innervoice It is often said that the one thing everyone wants is "to be heard" , and when we give the gift of our attention it can literally change someones day . Consciously listening is when we focus our energy towards someone, projecting positivity and compassion and holding space for them to unpack their inner clutter so they can get calm and see clearly. We don't have to attach to fixing them , for when we