SELF LOVE IS TO REPLACE YOUR SELF IMPOSED IDEALS WITH SELF ACCEPTANCE
We all have many ideals that we strive to live up to that have often been adopted from our parents and society at large , yet when those very aspirations become intimations instead of serving us they can become a judgement system that we hold against ourselves and when we come up short reprimand and punish ourselves mentally for not living up to them .
This twisted mental judge or Judge Mental can be so detrimental to our well being as we never feel good enough due to our own restrictions, and this then bleeds out into how we behave with others wheee we look for them to live up to these unreasonable expectations , hoping that those around us will make up for our shortfall .
The answer here is ACCEPTANCE , to totally see that we are perfect as we are , that whatever our situation or circumstances that we are a bright loving being , and that the most valuable aspect of us is our ability to express the love that we are . This is infinite and eternal and needs no external force , it is the expression of our very being and it starts with loving ourselves through this delightful realization of our abundance of this divine essence. When we can accept and express love we realize we are not here to improve but to remove these oppressive ideals and gratefully rejoice in the magical innocence that is our very nature .
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