TO RELEASE OURSELVES FROM OUR PAST IDENTITY WE ALSO HAVE TO BE WILLING TO RELEASE ALL THAT CAME WITH IT When we have gone through a transformational experience we can feel as if our body is now too small for our new energetic self . Like a snake shedding its skin we have to remove the restrictive patterns of our past so that we may expand beyond our old identity. Although this in itself can be challenging, as most of what we have acquired is very valued by us, one of the unfo

When we have undertaken concentrated periods of education , we become flooded with new ideas and feel so energized that we wish to hit the ground running . Full of enthusiasm we move ahead without a clear plan or direction and can quickly become overwhelmed. When ever we have gone through a process of evolution it is important to give ourselves the timeout to reflect and let things settle . For these shifts will need to be integrated into our navigation system , removing what

When we unattach from outcomes we allow upgrades So often we enter into an situation we have an idea of how we wish it to play out and by bringing in this expectation we  create a restriction that can actually limit the possibilities. If we are willing to simple be with each moment in courageous authenticity we free ourselves from the awkwardness of trying to figure out what is the best way to attain and outcome and simply be ourselves, dropping all insistence and resistance,

Be Courageous  enough To Be Authentic . For confidence is born from trust ourselves. Asking for what you want requires courage . When we are willing to trust our internal guidance and release our fears we can communicate from a place of authenticity. How to do this is developing self awareness so that In each moment we can notice if we are resistant, in which case we move towards this situation or Insistent in which case we step back from it . Never forcing or avoiding but tu

When we drop our fear of embarrassment our capacity for fun becomes unlimited If we have invested in our ego we have sacrificed our authenticity for a construct , a mask , that we identify as ourselves and then we wish to protect its  standing with other people . We become proud of our achievements and become impressed by what we have built and slowly this investment lessens our willingness to be authentic with each passing moment. We wish for others to recognize and acknowle

When we listen to others we also train ourselves to hear our own innervoice It is often said that the one thing everyone wants is "to be heard" , and when we give the gift of our attention it can literally change someones day . Consciously listening is when we focus our energy towards someone, projecting positivity and compassion and holding space for them to unpack their inner clutter so they can get calm and see clearly. We don't have to attach to fixing them , for when we

WHEN WE RUSH TO GET SOMEWHERE WE NEVER ARRIVE WHERE WE ARE Our lives can sometimes be straight lines of clarity but more often than not they are filled with twists and turns . Unexpected events and delays  which if we are not careful, we can find ourselves being frustrated by. The reason for this frustration is that we have adopted the idea that straightforward is better than meandering. That more efficient is better than disorganized. That Fast is better than slow . Yet what

Be guided by your excitement not your fear We are all have an Internal guide that acts like a GPS ( God Provides Signs) sending us signals constantly as to the direction to take, and when we are sure of our destination then this is very straightforward to follow . However where it can be confusing is when we are unsure of where we wish to go. So as we switch back and forth the GPS changes real-time to update to our new desire. The thing is as we keep looking at the pros and c

What we can think is a disaster is the limited conclusion of a great redirection for a big and positive change in our life If this resonates Please like , share and comment below and join my mailing list at my website for more on the new Human operating system for life HOS3 WWW.PAULGOTEL.COM IF YOU ARE READY FOR YOUR OWN SELF REVOLUTION , then For Self Revolution Coaching Sessions email paulgotel.BIGU@gmail.com. #paulgotel #innerpower #thebigu #big #evernow #selfrevolution #

OUR WORTH IS NOT CREATED BY WHAT WE GET BUT DISCOVERED BY WHAT WE GIVE If this resonates Please like , share and comment below and join my mailing list at my website for more on the new Human operating system for life HOS3 WWW.PAULGOTEL.COM IF YOU ARE READY FOR YOUR OWN SELF REVOLUTION , then For Self Revolution Coaching Sessions email paulgotel.BIGU@gmail.com. #paulgotel #innerpower #thebigu #big #evernow #selfrevolution #selfhelp #selfdiscovery #inspiration #lifeteachings #

THE QUICKER WE RELEASE THE QUICKER WE RECEIVE When we are attached to someone or something we can tend to hold on beyond the time we can see it is time to let go , and create a desperation that not only sours the experience but creates resentment on both sides . If something in our lives requires us to keep it locked tight in our grasp then just like the classic parable about the emperor and the nightingale , when caged the object of our affection ceases to sing . It is only

Imagine Ease in all you do for all friction is generated by fear When we find resistance in our lives it can be very frustrating and on the surface look like it is some exterior person, place or situation that is causing this friction, yet if we are willing to look deeper and own it we can see that at its root it is our hidden fears that are at the cause of this unease . If we are willing to unattach from the desired outcome and allow things to work out in a different way fr

Release pressure on yourself and trust the universe to guide you. If this resonates Please like , share and comment below and join my mailing list at my website for more on the new Human operating system for life HOS3 WWW.PAULGOTEL.COM IF YOU ARE READY FOR YOUR OWN SELF REVOLUTION , then For Self Revolution Coaching Sessions email paulgotel.BIGU@gmail.com. #paulgotel #innerpower #thebigu #big #evernow #selfrevolution #selfhelp #selfdiscovery #inspiration #lifeteachings #lov

Celebrate the choices of others for they give clarity to your understanding of yourself. If this resonates Please like , share and comment below and join my mailing list at my website for more on the new Human operating system for life HOS3 WWW.PAULGOTEL.COM IF YOU ARE READY FOR YOUR OWN SELF REVOLUTION , then For Self Revolution Coaching Sessions email paulgotel.BIGU@gmail.com. I #paulgotel #innerpower #thebigu #big #evernow #selfrevolution #selfhelp #selfdiscovery #inspirat

Rather than wait to be chosen by another choose yourself Sometimes when we are putting ourselves forward in life to be chosen for a job , or a team or a relationship we generally present what we believe is our best side and hope that we will be chosen. Yet sometimes this can not serve us , for we are willing to hide what we judge as not our good side and exaggerate attributes we believe are desirable. This gives an inauthentic view of who we are in order to get some kind of p

Ask not how productive can I Be? but how generous can I Be ? In modern day life we often attribute our value to how productive we are in each day . Each morning we look to see what we can accomplish and at the end of the day looking back over our to do lists, feeling a sense of achievement as we tick each one off , only to wake the next day with more tasks awaiting us . Of course during the course of life it is necessary to complete daily duties both work and personal yet the

If we have the courage to be boldly bright, we illuminate both ourselves and others. If this resonates Please like , share and comment below and join my mailing list at my website for more on the new Human operating system for life HOS3 WWW.PAULGOTEL.COM IF YOU ARE READY FOR YOUR OWN SELF REVOLUTION , then For Self Revolution Coaching Sessions email paulgotel.BIGU@gmail.com. #paulgotel #innerpower #thebigu #big #evernow #selfrevolution #selfhelp #selfdiscovery #inspiration #

When we love someone the greatest joy we can have is to appreciate them unconditionally When we are fortunate to have the gift of loving another there is not a rulebook of things we have to do for them . We often set high expectations on ourselves for loving another and pass these on to others as well . If we set ourselves up to meet some imagined high standards we then create fear in us , around not living up to them and losing the object of our love . Also perversely this

When we drop our need to prove ourselves we recognize the value we have to offer Many of us feel an impulse to proof our worth to others so that we may discover our value in there reflection. Yet it is this very agenda that is the problem, as it is the requirement to have another see our value that has us become beggars to outside opinions,all the time missing that we are the royalty we seek, if only we would reveal it . Our natural selves carry a beautiful essence that is un

The only limit to the abundance life offers us is the amount we are comfortable receiving We can sometimes think that it is our outside circumstances that limit our abundance yet in truth it is our own thoughts that are the only limitations. Many of us have a negative connotation towards wealth and see it as excess , interpreting this as having more than our fair share . Which we perceive as being greedy , yet this dynamic sends a message out that we feel we should only have