TO FREE OUR EXPRESSION OF CREATIVITY WE NEED TO DROP THE BURDEN OF DUTY So many of us have a sense of responsibility that propels us along each day trying to live up to a sense of duty . We have a picture of ourselves in various roles that we idealize some perfect version of , and spend our days trying to live up to these unrealistic standards at the cost of our own authenticity. Eventually we see that this sense of duty becomes a burden , a weight we have to carry that we th

All judgement is self judgement, all blame is avoidance of responsibility, seek to look inside to discover the answers we look for in another When we are having challenges in a relationship we can feel judged, and in return judge ; we can feel Blamed and in return blame . This game of back and forth is one of righteousness and on the surface can seem just, as facts are presented and the case argued, yet ultimately this way of dealing with the situation is avoiding our respon

WHEN WE AVOID RESPONSIBILITY WE GIVE AWAY OUR POWER A common notion when we feel dominated by an outside force is that it has power over us. This space we adopt a victim mentality of frustration and annoyance, feeling we are a helpless in the face of forces beyond us . Yet all the power you need is within you and the only way for another to have power over you is if you have given away your power . Now on the surface there seems to be many reasons for this but ultimately it