When we Drop our insistence we invite Authentic Connection When we insist that somebody behaves a certain way without an agreement then this insistence can seem like a demand and creates resistance. The other feels like it they have to fit a certain mold to be excepted by us and the trouble with this is that even when they fulfill that expectation if it isn't genuine then the connection isn't either. Our priority should be to be as authentic and honest and open as possible, n

The experience of Honesty is the removal of our interference from our expression Many of us strive to be honest in our everyday lives , but often get confused when we are also adding in duty , pride, consideration for others and defensiveness . These factors can warp our authentic expression and have us either subduing ourselves to prevent an embarrassment or negative reaction or judging ourselves that what feels right is not in alignment with our responsibilities. The proble

Trust is built through total acceptance of what is and our willingness to make space for honesty to be revealed Trust is the corner stone of all relationships. Without it we are uneasy and unable to build understanding or agreement. Yet how do we build this essential aspect with our friends families and relationships. Quite often we mistakenly believe that to trust someone is for them to do what we want or what we need, but really the basis for trust is honesty. Rather than

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