WHEN MEET WITH GHOSTING ASK WHAT WAS I SECRETLY ASKING FOR THAT SCARED THEM AWAY
One of the modern worlds frustrations is a thing we have term 'ghosting'. This is a very interesting situation where you are in communication with somebody either by text , phone , or even meeting them and then all of a sudden the communication ceases, normally without any explanation, and what's interesting is this can happen not just in person relationships but in Business relationships as well.
Normally, this can leave us feeling annoyed and confused. Quite often a little hurt, because on some level we feel rejected. This rejection leads us to apply judgment to those that we feel have ghosted us . This is a way of dismissing the pain on the basis that avoiding that person or that situation was a lucky escape.
Yet on the deep level of everything being reflective, the question to ask oneself is what grasping energy was behind the connection? What insistence was at play within us that created a demand on the other? Quite often the other is not fully aware of it , but simply feels the pressure which scares them off.
As we notice and own this situations that occur in our life, we can refine with clarity, the difference between when we are looking to give to another without requirement, or we are looking to trade.
In which case we get very clear upfront, what it is, we are offering and what it is, we are expecting. In this way we can own the energies that are happening in our experience, and often rather than reaching out to another to fulfill us , we can look to ourselves to find that fulfillment is truly within.
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