Ownership is the shortest part to resolution
When we are challenged in life, especially by another person who seems at odds with us, we often try to resolve the issue by competing with them. We look to prove that we are right similar to a legal situation, reciting the facts and looking to win the case .
The issue with this is that when we win someone has to lose .We usually make someone wrong and that creates distance not connection. So in our close relationships whether with a partner, family or colleagues we are left with a wounded situation that can create distance and future resentment.
From the BIG U perspective everything in life is a reflection so what we are resisting actually has its origin within us. If we simply avoid it or blame another we still carry this energy forward so it will repeat in future connections.
The shortest path to true resolution is ownership. To recognize the inner wound we are carrying that is manifesting in the current situation and instead of playing the blame game , understand this trigger from outside , is actually a gift revealing this hidden aspect within us, so it may be owned and healed .
Once we are willing to own this, courageously and vulnerably sharing it with another, it creates compassion in them and leads to a deeper more loving connection .
What conflict can you look at owning today ??
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