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QUALITY OF LOVE EXPRESSED
The quality of the love you express is more important than the retention of a relationship through compromise . When we are in...

Paul Gotel
Apr 15, 20242 min read


LEAN INTO DISCOMFORT
WHEN WE LEAN INTO DISCOMFORT OUR HIDDEN GRIEF ARISES AND TRANSFORMS INTO PEACE When any kind of discomfort arises most of us have learnt...

Paul Gotel
Apr 10, 20242 min read


Self Compassion
BEING COMPASSIONATE WITH OTHERS BREEDS COMPASSION FOR SELF Many of us, without fully realizing it can overextend ourselves and give a lot...

Paul Gotel
Apr 9, 20242 min read


SERVICE IS NOT SACRIFICE
Service is not sacrifice Many of us are called to service in our lives yet if we are not balanced within ourselves we can sacrifice...

Paul Gotel
Apr 5, 20242 min read


LOVING RESILIENCE
Loving Resilience is having the fortitude to be authentic and trusting the consequences Love is the absence of conditions, it is not a...

Paul Gotel
Apr 1, 20242 min read


TRUST EVERYONE TO LEARN
Trust everyone to learn from their own mistakes , to intervene interrupts their evolution In some roles in our lives , particularly...

Paul Gotel
Mar 27, 20242 min read


Resolution by ownership
Ownership is the shortest part to resolution When we are challenged in life, especially by another person who seems at odds with us, we...

Paul Gotel
Mar 24, 20242 min read


APPRECIATION
That which you appreciate, Appreciates for you There are two different meanings we ascribe to the word appreciation, one is similar to...

Paul Gotel
Mar 22, 20241 min read


Courageous authenticity
BEING AUTHENTIC REQUIRES COURAGE YET THE PAYOFF IS WAY MORE THAN THE COST Although we all agree that being authentic is a great virtue,...

Paul Gotel
Mar 16, 20242 min read


LOVE IS AN EXPRESSION
LOVE IS AN EXPRESSION NOT AN ACQUISITION What are you loving for ? Many of us have hijack the essence of human love as a means to acquire...

Paul Gotel
Mar 13, 20242 min read


DON'T SAVE,SUPPORT
DONT TRY TO SAVE SOMEONE, SUPPORT THEM When we see someone in a situation that we perceive as dangerous or impactful in some way , most...

Paul Gotel
Mar 10, 20242 min read


LEAN INTO CHALLENGES
LEAN INTO CHALLENGE TO BECOME FEARLESS LEAN INTO THE CHALLENGE When we are challenged one of the more common ways of dealing with it is...

Paul Gotel
Mar 7, 20242 min read
DE-LIGHT-FULL
WHEN WE ARE LIT UP WE FILL THE WORLD WITH DELIGHT Most of us look for something outside of ourselves to ignite us and spend a lot of our...

Paul Gotel
Mar 1, 20242 min read


LEAN INTO EXCITEMENT
Dont let your past disappointment dampen your present excitement When we are children, we are full of the excitement of the moment...

Paul Gotel
Feb 27, 20242 min read


DROP YOUR INSISTENCE
DROP YOUR INSISTENCE AND TRUST IN DIVINE TIMING When we have an agenda without realizing it, we can be very insistent on having it...

Paul Gotel
Feb 16, 20242 min read


Everything we hold onto holds us back
In life we have learnt at an early age to hold on to things , sometimes even things that we no longer need , and this hoarding behavior...

Paul Gotel
Feb 14, 20242 min read


STOP THE DEMANDS
WHEN WE STOP MAKING DEMANDS ON OURSELVES WE STOP MAKING DEMANDS OF OTHERS ...And we are finally free to love both them and ourselves Life...

Paul Gotel
Feb 11, 20242 min read


BE GENTLE
BEING GENTLE WITH ONESELF ATTRACTS EASE INTO YOUR LIFE Since life is a reflection when we are feeling stressed because we have tension in...

Paul Gotel
Feb 7, 20242 min read


INNER CONFIDENCE
Inner confidence Breeds Outer humility Many of us, see humility, as some kind of weakness. We associate being humble with somebody who...

Paul Gotel
Feb 2, 20242 min read


RECUPERATION
RECUPERATION IS WHEN WE RECHARGE OUR ENERGY BY FOCUSING ON INTERNAL NOT EXTERNAL CONNECTIONS When we are depleted it is because we have...

Paul Gotel
Feb 1, 20242 min read
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