WHEN OUR AUTHENTICITY IS CHALLENGED DON’T DEFEND INSTEAD LOOK WITHIN & DISCOVER WHAT NEEDS TO BE DROPPED
Normally the first thing we do when our our Authenticity is challenged is to defend our standpoint with indignation, then the next is to reduce the challenger to less than us ,so we can dismiss their opinion as invalid and stay in our ivory tower of righteousness.
However like many things in life this kind of separation mindset , allows us to stay right in our own mind but limits the opportunity for growth which is always available in every situation. The other is always a reflection asking us to really check in with our own position to see this stimulation for inquiry as a gift that upon investigation will reveal some deeper understanding.
The reflection is appearing and we are defending it because on some level we are ready for change. Our attachment to our idealism blinds us to the smaller hidden inconsistencies within us .
So this challenger is showing up to enable us to look within discover this and make so adjustments that are more in align with who we are now , instead of holding on to a version of who we where then .
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