AS WE FREE OTHERS FROM OUR IDEALS WE ALSO FREE OURSELVES
Many of us hold people up to very high ideals, and when they do not live up to them we feel quite just in judging them and often making defamatory comments about there nature. And look for support from others to back up these judgments and justify this behavior.
The trouble with this is that it creates exclusion, and when we exclude others we separate ourselves from aspects of our own identity. In holding others to high standards we also have to hold ourselves to the same level and become our own worst critics. Constantly undermining our own confidence because we do not meet some inflated ideas of who we should be.
When somebody arises in our lives that we find ourselves wanted to judge , stop and instead reflect on how this person is a mirror and look instead to see where we have been holding ourselves to an ideal that is no longer serving us . For when we can release ourselves from this vaulted expectation we discover a sweet surrender as we lovingly accept ourselves for who we are and instead trust the universe to provide the perfect circumstances for us to thrive.
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