ONCE WE LEARN TO RECOGNIZE AND APPRECIATE THE WONDERFUL QUALITIES WE POSSESS WE NO LONGER NEED TO HAVE THEM ACKNOWLEDGED BY OTHERS
Many of us do not feel enough! We lack self-worth and so we go through our days trying to be the best we can be . Performing deeds that we feel will be appreciated by others, which is a wonderful thing if it comes from the heart and is a true gift but a lot of the time we are looking for a trade . We seek acknowledgment for these actions with gratitude or reciprocation , and mistakenly defining our worth by this feedback.
The problem with this is that when we do not receive it we become offended, our pride gets hurt and triggers sadness so that we try to avoid future instances of this by pushing people out of our lives so as to not to feel pain of rejection or judgment.
The solution to this is to acknowledge the inherent gifts that we all possess from our childhood. Spontaneity, vitality, playfulness, optimism, joy and creativity. Even if we have subdued these in an attempt to “grow up” at our core these are the qualities that our inner children possess. So when we can add opportunities in our lives for these wonderful attributes to be ignited then we can genuinely discover and appreciate within ourselves , What we had previously tried to get from others
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