Acceptance removes the resistance to abundance In the polarized view of the world that most people adopt , seeing things as either good or bad , we are all ready to accept  something we perceive serves us but resistant to that we think does not . We think that loss is negative so any thing that we perceive that way we resist.Adversely  what insist on things that we believe we will gain something from . However the truth is that this behavior of forcing to get or defending , b

DON'T AVOID CHALLENGES THEY ARE OPPORTUNITIES FOR EVOLUTION AND SUPPORT When we are confronted with a challenge we are often inclined to try and navigate to avoid them, however when we do this we are sidestepping the opportunities for evolution that they offer. Normally we are trying to avoid a loss of some sort, yet we could never loose that which we are. So ultimately the only thing we could ever loose  is what we are not , and that removal will always lighten our load , en

When we listen to others we also train ourselves to hear our own innervoice It is often said that the one thing everyone wants is "to be heard" , and when we give the gift of our attention it can literally change someones day . Consciously listening is when we focus our energy towards someone, projecting positivity and compassion and holding space for them to unpack their inner clutter so they can get calm and see clearly. We don't have to attach to fixing them , for when we

Do not yearn for what you don't have. Enjoy what you do. If this resonates Please like , share and comment below and join my mailing list at my website for more on the new Human operating system for life HOS3 WWW.PAULGOTEL.COM IF YOU ARE READY FOR YOUR OWN SELF REVOLUTION , then For Self Revolution Coaching Sessions email paulgotel.BIGU@gmail.com. #paulgotel #innerpower #thebigu #big #evernow #selfrevolution #selfhelp #selfdiscovery #inspiration #lifeteachings #love #reflecti

Self Love is to accept ourselves completely and be grateful for all we are If this resonates Please like , share and comment below and join my mailing list at my website for more on the new Human operating system for life HOS3 WWW.PAULGOTEL.COM IF YOU ARE READY FOR YOUR OWN SELF REVOLUTION , then For Self Revolution Coaching Sessions email paulgotel.BIGU@gmail.com. #paulgotel #innerpower #thebigu #big #evernow #selfrevolution #selfhelp #selfdiscovery #inspiration #lifeteachin

ACCEPTANCE OF ANY SITUATION IS THE FIRST STEP TOWARDS ITS RESOLUTION The first step towards resolution is acceptance. Quite often we are faced with challenging situation and our first thing we do is resist it. We try to avoid it we try to negate it, we try to push it on somebody else, yet it is only when we truly own what is happening in that we can start the process towards resolution. Every challenge that comes to us is going to lead us on a journey whether it be an exterio

Outer love is an expression of inner kindness When we choose to be kind to ourselves, we stop looking for others to fulfill our needs and instead discover our own fulfillment when we express that kindness through loving our life . Every aspect of the external world is an aspect of our internal relationship with ourselves and so when we choose to take the time to be compassionate, tender and kind to ourselves then we heal our own perverted judgements and come into a sweet lovi

All aloneness arrives to creates space for transformation Sometimes we have plans with others which change abruptly , and leave us with an unexpected space in or schedule . If we are tired or busy that is quite often a blessing and happens perfectly to allow us to either rest or get a task completed and like most of life's changes they align to serve us perfectly. However sometimes this shift can catch us unaware and instead of realizing the gift we are hit with a wave of a

Compassionate self acceptance is the path to peace Quite often in life we can be very judge mental about ourselves and behaviors. Looking back at the post we can have regrets about things that we perceive as mistakes, that lead to situations we would have wanted to avoid . Yet these judgmental memories have a negative effect on our future for they push us onwards ,trying to make up for these past perceived mistakes by looking to achieve improvements each day . Yet to always

Trust is built through total acceptance of what is and our willingness to make space for honesty to be revealed Trust is the corner stone of all relationships. Without it we are uneasy and unable to build understanding or agreement. Yet how do we build this essential aspect with our friends families and relationships. Quite often we mistakenly believe that to trust someone is for them to do what we want or what we need, but really the basis for trust is honesty. Rather than

HOW WE EXPERIENCE TIME IS A MEASURE OF OUR INSISTENCE, RESISTANCE AND ACCEPTANCE. Time seems to be immutable and constant and yet when we really look at the details we realize that it is different all over the world with different time zones. It is different on a different planet because they have different orbits around the sun and most importantly it is different for each of us depending on awareness in the moment, time can feel like it’s slow or time can feel like it’s fa

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If you need it it’s here! If it’s here you need it ! #need #providence #acceptance #abundance #perfection #paulgotel #innerpower #thebigu #bigu #evernow #selfrevolution #selfhelp #selfdiscovery #maui #inspiration

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