DROP THE DEMAND OF EXPECTANCY AND ALLOW THE CHOICE OF GENEROSITY
When we have strong expectations of how a person should behave or situation should happen we are placing a demand on the outcome that is not only limiting its effectiveness but also the unexpected possibilities that it might bestow upon us .
We all have many cultural , religious and social influences that have instilled in us a rather dogmatic point of view of the world and without really being conscious of it we place this imprint on our lives and those around us , simply feeling that we have the “right” viewpoint and those who differ are confused or even blatantly wrong.
This defensive posturing has us shut down to new ways of perceiving and also creates separation from others .
If we are able to find the courage to question our current beliefs we can always be open to the opportunity of another reflecting to us a new way of being that will now serve us better , for no matter how much we might feel attached to an ideology about who we are , we are always evolving and those around us are serving that goal . So instead of demanding , allow the space for yourself and the other to choose generosity, a valuable and loving gift always sent absent of conditions.
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